High Wycombe Escorts

Heavenly High Wycombe is one of the larger towns in Buckinghamshire. With a population in excess of one hundred and twenty five thousand it is second only to Milton Keynes. The town has a vast array of shops, public houses, wine bars (I quite like The Snug on Crown Lane - http://www.thesnugbar.co.uk/high-wycombe) and restaurants (https://www.tripadvisor.co.uk/Restaurant_Review-g186223-d6981844-Reviews-Santorini-High_Wycombe_Buckinghamshire_England.html– Santorinis is a fabulous little Greek place full of character and charm not to mention great tasting food) as well as a good range of other leisure facilities, including parks, museums, a cinema and more. Of course it is also the place to be if you want to enjoy the pinnacle of intimate companionship services – High Wycombe Escorts.

 

If you like traditions that date back through the centuries you may be intrigued to hear that High Wycombe is one of the few remaining places to actively continue to 'weigh the mayor'. This ancient ceremony, dating back to the seventeenth century involves actually weighing the incumbent of the office of mayor! Whilst the mayor of High Wycombe is actually weighed in public his actual weight is not openly declared. Instead the town crier will call out 'more' or 'no more' in respect of whether the mayor has gained weight in the previous twelve months of office or not. It is thought that the idea behind the ceremony is to see if the representative of the people has actually gained weight at the taxpayer's expense. Perhaps this ritual should be performed for all politicians! LOL.

 

Many notable people have lived or live in High Wycombe, including Terry Pratchett and Ian Dury, Howard Jones and Dusty Springfield. The former world number one golfer Luke Donald was educated nearby. Possibly the most famous, or certainly influential person to have inhabited the town would be Benjamin Disraeli, the former Conservative Prime Minister who was lauded for his policies in relation to the Balkans. As well as being a diplomat, statesman and man of profound political beliefs, Disraeli was also an author. His most famous novel was also his last, Endymion, and like his other works it is a romance. Which by chance, ahem, is also the topic of my blog today.

 

I was having a chat with another sexy escort from High Wycombe escorts the other day, a hot girl called Samantha who is known to be a little dizzy. OK, she is away with the fairies most of the time but loveable and very, very sexy to go with it. She is petite, but curvy. She has the most amazing, come to bed eyes and a husky voice with shades of Marilyn at her finest. When she walks by everyone watches, men and women alike and she has the most amazing, dirty laugh. She's a fun girl and knows how to have and give a good time. Samantha has a reputation as a girl who likes to be with a man. Her sexual appetite is legendary amongst the girls and she goes through boyfriends like nobody's business. So, when she said the other day that she likes to be romanced I was taken aback. From my perspective she is quite the modern Milly, often approaching guys in pubs and clubs – you could never accuse Samantha of being shy. And with her looks and sex appeal – I mean she could be a catwalk model or parade around in sexy lingerie for Victoria's Secrets if she were ten inches taller, she never receives no for an answer when she propositions some lucky guy or other.

 

But romance? When my jaw dropped, my eyes widened and I stared at her in obvious disbelief she looked irritated for a moment but then explained herself. She said that whilst she enjoyed the physical side of a relationship, if any guy wanted to win her heart then he needed to go the whole romantic hog. That got me thinking about what it means to be romantic? Is it something that comes natural or can a guy learn how to be romantic? Could the average guy woo a girl as hot, sexy and busty as the model escort Samantha? I decided to do some research.

 

If you want to know how to romance a girl my first tip is to avoid sites written by men from a man's perspective! For the inside track seek out those in the know, open minded, modern women who know what they are writing about. Clearly, Cosmopolitan is a good place to start and my favourite relationships writer has to be Carina – https://www.cosmopolitan.com/author/7022/carina-hsieh/. Her article on twenty five ways to be romantic is a must read. But let's be honest, most guys reading this are not contemplating being romantic just for the sake of it. You are thinking of the end product and we all know that means, hot, rip off your clothes bedtime action! LOL. This kind of love action requires the ultimate in trust and intimacy. You need to have a bond with your partner that transcends just one night stand escapades after hooking up with some stranger in a bar. Well, have you heard about tantric kissing? Let me explain – and gents, bear with me!

 

First of all when you kiss tantrically the idea is to prolong the moment, increase the intimacy, take your time. You lean in close, lips slightly apart, as though you are going to French kiss. But, at the very last moment you inhale as your partner exhales and vice versa. The sensation of two becoming one, of breathing for each other is incredibly erotic and will soon have your girl just where you want her to be – deep in your arms. You can find out more in the guide book to Tantric Sex, 'Living an Orgasmic Life'. Now who wouldn't want to read a book with a title as inviting and promising as that?

 

Did you know that a woman likes a man to tell her what he wants? And did you know that the perfect place to whisper sweet nothings is in a girl's right ear? It's true, honest. And use the direct address as often as you can. Say things like “you turn me on so much,” and “you are so hot” and “I just want to make love to you baby”. Better still, be specific about what it is about your special someone that turns you on - “you smell so great” and “you have the softest skin” both can work a treat.

 

Sexy women know that a guy likes his name to be used when she is close to an orgasm and the same applies to girls. Just make sure you say the right name or it will be curtains when it comes to you having any chance of enjoying a hot woman in the bedroom!

 

Looking at your partner when engaging in any intimate activity is a must if you want to arouse the deepest of deep feelings. It is also practical as it allows you to see just exactly what it is that is turning your girl on – what movement, position or variation works best.

 

Of course just being up close and personal – cuddling basically – creates an awful lot of intimacy. Cuddling represents so much more than just a precursor to hot sex. It is about being protective, caring, warm and loving as well.

 

An interesting page I came across on msn at https://www.msn.com/en-gb/lifestyle/family-relationships/the-20-most-romantic-gestures-according-to-2000-men-and-women/ar-BBIgXjZmakes some really interesting points about how, for many people, romantic gestures can come across as cheesy. I understand this. I mean, Valentines Day equates to roses and a card with a lame verse in it, does it not? It all seems so phoney, so contrived and cliched. The trick is being romantic without being seen as false or superficial. The difficulty here is when a guy falls into the trap of thinking romance for a girl is like the type of story in a Mills and Boon novel. My advice is not to confuse reality with fiction. The article goes on to list what people cite as the most romantic gestures but for me it really does not pull up any trees – holding hands anyone? I'm not sure that is going to feature in a sequel to Fifty Shades of Grey any time soon. (Nothing against Mills and Boon romances but I question whether they are being read by young women or getting any sexy young chick hot under the blouse). To be fair the page details the results of a survey by the eponymous book publisher but I would like to know who they asked and when they asked them. I mean, a wet Wednesday shopping in High Wycombe? I'm hardly likely to tell you the innermost secrets of my sensual mind now am I? Still, perhaps there is a place, even in our modern, sex orientated, cynical modern world for spontaneous romantic moments.

 

I suppose I shouldn't neglect the obvious romantic gestures like taking your girl out for a meal in a candlelit, intimate restaurant with soft ambient music and good food – including oysters of course! And then there is the night in with the sensual massage and the pillow talk. Or the conversations about how you first met or what you would like to do to each other – taking your time to build up to an intense finale as you reveal your most intimate desires and live out your fantasies.

 

Psychology wise there are plenty of sites to help you better understand how your partner 'tics'. Check out Psychology Today's dedicated pages at https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-truisms-wellness/201702/all-about-love. The article covers the various types of love from companionship to infatuation to romantic love to what the site calls the ultimate which is 'consummate'. Interesting that sexual love without commitment or romantic intent is called 'fatuous'. I suppose because the article is suggesting that it is an imitation of the real thing. I don't fully agree with that myself. Personally, I want romance, love, sex but without commitment. The idea of being with one person for the rest of my life fills me with dread and horror. Each new relationship brings with a special frisson of excitement as you find out about someone for the first time and how they respond to your touch. I know that Paul Newman once famously remarked when asked why he didn't cheat on his wife when so many Hollywood starlets must be throwing themselves at his feet, “why eat hamburger when I have steak at home”. My response would be variety is the spice of life and a satisfying cheeseburger once in a while can only serve to make you enjoy the steak afresh! LOL.

 

I do wonder of girls like my escort friend Samantha have been sold a line – the romantic, fairytale, prince charming sweeping a girl off her feet myth. It is a prevalent trope across all forms of art, literature, cinema and such. When I look at Samantha seducing some lucky guy who just can't wait to enjoy all that life has to offer – and trust me that what Escort Samantha has to offer will live long in the memory – I don't know why she still has this thing about wining and dining, love and romance. Let's face it, for most people love starts with lust. I don't see a guy in a club and immediately think I want to have his babies or I want the big white wedding or I want to be swept off my feet. I am thinking about the fun we could have. And if it doesn't work out, no problem, there's plenty of fish in the sea. We begin with lustful looks and as far as I am concerned I don't need lust to turn into love. But if you are romantically inclined or you just want a girl to think you are I hope my summary of the ways to charm your way into a girl's affections and possibly her bedroom also has been a help!