How do you know if you are good in bed? If you're lucky enough to be in a healthy relationship, hopefully, your partner will be open and will tell you what they do or don't like.
But for the rest of us? If we're not already in a healthy relationship, how do you know if you're good in bed?
Fortunately, there are a few things that universally make a good partner. Let's dive right in.
Listening is the number one thing it takes to be a great lover. You have to be open to hearing what your partner says about you, or your performance.
If they want to try new things, hopefully, you're receptive to it. If they're not into something, you should be swift to move on.
Sex is a two-person relationship. So you always need to be open to what your partner has to say.
This will come more as you have sex with the same partner. You learn what they do and don't like, or how they react when they're getting close.
If you know what they like and can throw it in at just the right moment, your partner will love it.
The best way to boost your intuition is to pay attention to what your partner likes, and how they act at various stages of arousal.
What's the sexiest trait a person can have? Confidence.
The more you have good sex, the more you can boost your confidence. If there's a particular move you want to learn to be good at, you may want to hire an escort. Sex with an escort is amazing because there's no reason for you to be nervous. It's a great place to try new things.
But that's not the only way to boost your confidence. Learn to feel good in your body. Dress in a way that makes you feel good, and learn what you like and how to ask for it. You can use these confidence hacks when you're trying to fake it.
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Does sex follow a set routine? While it can be useful to have a specific set of moves that you and your partner both enjoy, it can't be the same routine every time. Otherwise, you risk burning out.
A good sexual partner is comfortable spicing things up in the bedroom. Try a new toy, a new position, or a new dirty talk phrase.
Likewise, you should be receptive to your partner's creativity. If they want to try something new, be willing to give it a go, at least once to see if you like it.
It's healthy to have hard limits that you and your partner both agree you don't want to cross. But inside those limits? Good sex partners are eager to mix things up and explore.
If your partner is starfishing, they simply might not be that into it. But if they're active and vocal? That's what you want to hear.
Pay attention to the way they moan, grab at you, or talk dirty. Do they scratch your back or bite your neck? Do they start to get flushed and sweaty?
And of course, if they're reaching an orgasm, they're probably into it.
With good sex, people touch, kiss, and explore the other person. If your partner is into you and it feels like they're on the same page, they probably are.
Most often, this comes with oral sex. Some people are fine giving oral, but they feel awkward or unworthy on the receiving end.
Then it can always happen the other way around too. You might love receiving oral, but the idea of putting someone else's private parts in your mouth isn't so appealing.
As a good sex partner, you're fine with both.
This applies to all parts of sex. A good sex partner wants to make their partner feel amazing and knows their partner wants to make them feel good too.
Sex in the real world isn't like a movie scene. There's no perfectly plotted musical score, no beautiful and subtle PG-13 glory scenes. It's messy and sweaty, and honestly a little bit gross.
But that's okay! That's part of what makes sex great, is sharing the messiness of life with another person.
As a good sex partner, you don't judge. You don't judge your partner for physical features they may be self-conscious of, and you're okay letting go of the awkwardness of sex.
Yes, someone will probably fart, or get super sweaty, like way more than what's normal, or there's weird body hair or an odd mole. But someone good in bed just rolls with the punches.
How do you know if you are good in bed? Hopefully, you're open to new things and receptive to your partner's reactions and feedback.
Most importantly, a good bedroom partner listens without judgment and trusts their partner.
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